The ideas I had about my mom based on this charm bracelet were wild – it had a ladder, an ashtray, a love meter, a wine glass and a wheelbarrow – to name a few. She has no recollection of it at all, and thought that it was bought for me. When I asked her who would buy an ashtray charm for a child’s bracelet, she realized that it must have been hers, but still had no memory of it.